Taking a journey along your partner’s errogenous zones means to bring the focus to the body and all its wonderful sensitivities, as well as the mind by building intimacy and connection. In her forthcoming book “Sex Again“, Jill Blakeway talks about the importance of foreplay as a way to get Qi to rise, increasing sexual energy and desire, thus making for a deeper and richer sexual experience for both partners. “The key is to involve the whole body in foreplay, and to use all your senses.” The path and all the stops on this channel can generate sexual pleasure from the powerful connection of the kidneys. You both may find that areas you hadn’t thought to bring focus provide a delightful feeling. Using the method of your choice, fingertips or lips or tongue, start at the bottom working your way up – which goes with the natural upward flow of energy in the kidney meridian.
Behind the knee – Take a moment to give attention behind the knee, as this area is very sensitive with many nerve endings, so you can kiss and lick this delicate crevice.
Lower abdomen – The channel passes the groin, and up along the sides of the abdomen. (you can make a quick stop toacknowledge the groin but for now don’t linger – or you’ll never make up to the final destination!) The abdomen is a very special area with vulnerability and sensitive to enticement. Lips and tongue are most welcome here but you can also spend a little time doing some circular massage strokes below the the umbilicus or using the pads of your fingers to trail strokes upward form the public bone.
Collarbone – Trailing further up along the chest we come to the collarbone. This is a beautiful spot on the body and where the last points of the kidney channel lie. Try gentle strokes with your fingertips, or brush with your lips, just below the bones ridge moving inward or out.
The Throat – Kisses along the throat or brushing with the lips is bound to elect pleasure with this area being very delicate and vulnerable. And it’s on the way to the mouth, we’re we are headed, as the kidney meridian has a divergence that connects to the tongue.
The Tongue – I can’t express enough the endless benefits of kissing so to quote Jill, “Kissing creates closeness both physically and emotionally…Kissing, especially tongue kissing, produces not only pleasure but a sense of attachment..The lips and tongue are exquisitely sensitive.” The tongue has an energetic connection to the heart as well and so it’s clear to see how feelings of love and warmth can bloom from a kiss.